Ever since we let our little puppy, Míka, into our hearts and home we've come up against a challenge: house training. For some of you that brings up memories of pee on your favorite sweater, chewing up that expensive shoe or sentimental leather journal or the worst: the foul smell of puppy poo. To keep most of these things from happening and to train her well she stays in her kennel through the night. Then, every two and a half hours we take turns, groggy-eyed, taking her outside to do her puppy business. This severely messed up our sleeping patterns at first, but now we've kind of gotten used to it.
Normally after my shift I find it hard to fall back to sleep right away, so I'll get on my smart phone and surf Pinterest or see what the latest photos are on Instagram until my eyes hurt so bad from the contrast of the dark room and back-lit screen I can't help but shut them and fall back to sleep. Recently though, I decided I would fill my mind with more than recipes, DIY's, and photos of other people's food. I moved all my social media apps to the last page, and moved all the blogs of friends who were doing missions to my front page. Two nights ago I couldn't fall asleep for the first time since I made this decision. And we'll see how this worked out…
A friend of mine, Joanna Branson, is on a six-month journey doing research on safe houses that provide rehabilitation to women rescued from sex-trafficking. She's a spunky little five-foot-one, so-tiny-you-could-fit-her-in-your-pocket sort of girl with immense amounts of courage. Just catching up on her blog (which I said I would read but haven't yet, sorry Joanna!) stoked embers in me that hadn't been aflame since I left Kenya in 2011. It's eerily easy to forget the injustice happening in the world--maybe not forget completely, that wouldn't be possible, but forget the urgency. As I read her post in which she shared the rage she felt I too felt it. I felt the confusion of how God's love covers both sides, I felt the helplessness she felt, but mostly I wanted to get up out of bed, pack my bags, wake up Tyler and say "we're going!" Here's a quote from that post:
"...I’m mad because a village here encourages their daughters to save their virginity in order to sell it to a foreigner. When they do, they go for $2000 USD and the village throws a celebration that honors the parents using the money. I’m disgusted that I’m mad at them more than I am the perverted foreigners….I’m really the most angry because there are internet blogs that rate the red light districts right next to me. They rate the women with explicit details and give creative ideas on how to trick them into lowering their prices. They gave maps with detailed instructions. I filtered through this and made a map of where all the trafficked women are, which street corner, which doorway, what times. From Russian to African to whatever you’re looking for. And the blog writers know they are trafficked. I’m so mad that I read those things and made that map because now I’m sitting up at night looking at the clock knowing exactly where the Russian girls stand and where the Russian embassy is and I’m still completely useless. I’m so mad at how easy it was to find out those things. I don’t know where to go from here. I talk to God and I am awestruck at how faithful His love is. He loves the women, their parents, the men, the ladyboys, the men who beat up the ladyboys, and He moves and He rescues and He recklessly pursues all of them. But right now all I can feel is boiling furious rage. I don’t want to go home yet, but I would right now- I want to go to a place where I can speak the language and scream and tell people where this is happening and what time they should go pick these women and men up and help them get home. But even then, would that change anything?…"
Alas, I didn't buy plane tickets, I didn't pack our bags, and I didn't wake up Tyler. I fell back asleep only to wake up, make breakfast, snuggle with my man and enjoy our morning. I don't think this is wrong, but it scares me how easily I put what I had felt so passionately at the back of my mind. It didn't stay there long though, because later in the day I began to feel this restlessness rise up in me. I couldn't shake it. The problem was I wanted a fun day. I wanted to be cute and married and silly, getting coffee at Fido's, doing our grocery shopping at Trader Joe's, and I was mostly excited to get some Mast Brother's chocolate from Barista Parlor (nom nom nom nom). Still, I couldn't shake this heaviness, this weight.
Please don't misread my heart, these are things I am super passionate about, I think I just find myself internally conflicted. Like I said to Tyler-- "On the same device I can read about the horrors of sex trafficking and also find a DIY craft for that chair I never sit in." Which is not bad. I started to feel even more restless, I couldn't enjoy our day. Instead of trying to push and root for the carefree day I had expected, I yielded to the emotions and passion welling up in me. I outwardly processed with Tyler what I was feeling inside and then we prayed. We prayed for about a half and hour blessing those on the front lines, calling down favor, and mostly asking how to pray. The weight lifted, and our day was still a blast, and wasn't "ruined" by the seriousness but it brought fulfillment to recognize. So until I feel the freedom to pack our bags, buy a plane ticket and go to the front lines. I will pray fervently. I will help bring information to the uninformed and I will stay informed.
God is so good and so gracious and He wants us to enjoy the blessing we have. There is a way to bring them together. Social media, our blessings of clean water and food shouldn't make us feel shame, but thankfulness. There's a balance, as with everything in the Kingdom of Heaven. A "fun" day can include a DIY for that chair I never sit in AND praying for that girl being sold into sex slavery--all in the same day.
Ignorance is not bliss.